Having a holiday season without overspending sounds about as
likely as having a piece of triple-fudge chocolate cake without
calories. There's simply no way.
That may be true as far as the chocolate cake is concerned, but
when it comes to the holidays, you can have your celebrations and
afford them, too. All it takes is a little planning.
"But I don't have the time!" you say.
Understood. But ask yourself this: Would you rather spend time
to budget now and enjoy debt-free holidays - or spend more time,
money and effort to pay off bills in January and through next
year?
"I'll think about it. What's the catch?"
You are. Meaning: you have to start catching yourself in the act
of things you normally do unconsciously (like spending money) and
start being conscious about them instead.
"You mean I have to watch every penny I spend?"
Not yet. Before you spend it, you need to plan where you'll spend
it. And we've created a template of a plan that you can get right
here. Here are some of the questions we'll ask you to answer:
1. What are all the things I'm going to spend money on? (That
means every thing - from gifts and gift-wrap to tickets to go
to grandma's.)
2. How much will each of those things cost?
3. What's the sum total of all of those things?
4. What are my available funds?
5. What's the difference? (For most of us, the size of our
dreams is not quite covered by what's available in the bank.)
6. Where can I minimize, re-prioritize, and/or cut down to get
what I want for less?
"Bah, humbug! Where's the fun in that?"
Everywhere! There's the delight of discovering hidden bargains
on the internet. There's relief in having friends over for a
holiday pot-luck instead of a hosted party. Maybe you'll get
creative and make your own cards. Or turn the comics into wrapping
paper.
Watching your money naturally leads you to put more of yourself
into everything you do. So don't be surprised when being more
mindful also leads you to be more mirthful.
Real joy comes when you know that you have the funds to cover all
that you're giving. That way, you can truly give generously and
freely.
Of course, you'll track your expenditures along the way, to make
sure you stay on plan.
"You mentioned something about the perfect gift. Where's my
present in this?"
Right here. You see, we're talking about your holiday present
because so many people actually spend a holiday future. They
close their eyes to what they're doing now - and when they wake up
- they have to face that unpleasant holiday hangover in the form
of huge bills.
But there is a real present for you, too. It's the peace-of-mind
you give yourself, knowing that you're acting out of integrity and
fiscal responsibility. And that, as they say, is priceless.
So you see, it is possible to have your holidays, afford, and
enjoy them, too. And who knows? When you start getting creative,
you may even find a way to come up with a recipe for calorie-free
chocolate cake!
Please let us know when you do!
Karen McCall is founder of the Financial Recovery Institute and can be reached at 877-224-9933 or e-mail info@financialrecovery.com. This article has been reproduced with the permission of the Financial Recovery Institute.
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